The come back

So we go to the lake to talk and she tells me that she had slept with a fifty year old man, she was shooting drugs again with her EX husband and she was in her words" self destructing" she had a girlfriend that had just got out of prison staying with her. (Both living … Continue reading The come back

The Blurry years

The next year or two were a blur. An era of on again off again, cheating, triangulation, gaslighting, projection, emotional and physical abuse, drug use, alcohol overuse. Hard to remember in a time line. I know I came back and we were staying with her family again, she always needed to get everyone back to … Continue reading The Blurry years

Shes back…

So she comes back and we are a family again, the Ex calls her over and over finally ending in a violent cuss out to the voicemail, she had no problem ignoring him at all.(typical Narc behavior) I remember feeling bad for the guy, but oh well he was all to happy to hurt me, … Continue reading Shes back…

It started like a whirlwind…

We met and seemed to instantly connect. I was out of a 13 year marriage, and according to her she was going through the same. We talked about Love, life, sex, children for hours and hours, enjoying each other. We had so much in common it seemed to be Fate or Destiny , maybe Karma … Continue reading It started like a whirlwind…