The less you know about what they are saying about you, the more power they have. They will withhold information in order to control a situation that has taken place. This is how they can then compromise the integrity of another person and then use them for their own personal benefit and gain in order to control a situation or a person. They will also lie extensively by omission and controlling of the facts. Make no mistake, they do this on purpose to destroy another person. Many targets will say that they had no idea a false narrative was being pushed out until it was too late. Many targets will say they were in a complete FOG once they realized what was occurring – trying to put the pieces together.